I am Paul.
I like to walk.
Actually, I love to walk.
You probably have heard a lot of me from a girl who happens to be my woman. Remember when you once – maybe twice, no, make that many times – read of her giving up on her man?
Yes, I am that man. I give her a lot of reasons to break the preliminary cord that in time will permanently bind us unbreakably as one. I display weaknesses that may seem trivial to most of you but mean like larger than life for her. I retaliate by hurling equally non-cursing but hurtful words when she draws first blood. I show lack of patience as of late, allowing myself to get affected by some personal and domestic problems which shouldn’t come in our way as lovers.
Yes, I am that man.
And I love to walk.
The sun has concealed in the blink of an eye. Darkness fills the sky. Drizzles from heaven signal imminent doom for castle-makers by the shore today: Either gigantic sea waves from Poseidon wash your castle away or the merciless rain from Zeus will.
Walk Paul. This is the best time to walk.
And think.
Have I been unfair?
Am I unfair?
I hope not. I spoke to a colleague about the guilt that strikes someone who quenches in the fun but knows his woman is alone, frustrated by the fact that she can’t do anything to be with him. As I walk beside the shore, after the facades of crooked smile and forced wackiness, I know this as much:
Either I make it up to her, or I lose my mind, my heart, and my woman forever.
I’m actually hearing voices in my mind, especially considering I’ve been a carefree guy most of my life.
…If she’s too much whimsical, leave her.
…Women who don’t control their temper as well as they do to their words aren’t for keeps.
…There are a lot of women out there who can make me happy by doing things my way.
…There are a lot out there always available at any time, unlike her.
Sigh.
Okay, I lied. Those aren’t actually the voices I’m talking of that resound in my head every time I mess things up. Those are actually words she said, or in some ways, made me feel about us after a verbal melee.
Do you remember the fragile vase I talked about in this page, serially?
She’s that vessel. I broke her, needlessly shattered her into thousands of pieces. And whatever happens, even if she’s the one who will mess things up, I will always take in consideration that because of my weaknesses that I displayed many times before, she can cut the string between us at any time. She can tire anytime. And she’s going to leave me anytime.
As I dove one last time, skin sun-burnt and all, I took a moment to think of one thing under the water:
I would love her to be with me in times like these.
With or without the beach, sunny Sunday afternoon or lonely Thursday nights, I want only her with me.
And if that means waiting for years before I can take her hand and eventually realize that thing in my thoughts, so be it. Right now, I’m going to hate myself every time we both screw our relationship up. Hurtful words, thoughtless actions – Nah. Whatever people may say, I still believe everything’s been my doing.

After I take a bath to wash the saline taste of seawater off my body, I take a walk beside the shore, one last time.
Walk, Paul.
The day is ending.
Someone a hundred miles away is crying.
And at any time, that someone in my heart can be leaving.